What To Do Whan You Are Shy

You have probably heard a thousand times, thatYou might have noticed that Wal-Mart uses greeters
mortgages is a people business. You have to go outin each of its stores. This is a person that stands by
and meet people. You have to know a lot of people.the doors and says hello when you walk in. This was
The more you know and talk to the better.not Sam's idea. In fact the greeter is there to make
But what happens if you are shy and you just dosure no one walks out with any merchandise.
not feel comfortable approaching strangers andBut Sam did use his technique in Wal-Mart. One year
starting up conversations? Either you find another jobnear the holidays he had an idea and broadcast it to
or you find a way to get around this hurdle.all the stores and all the associates via their satellite
Many loan officers that have this problem hide in theirsystem. He asked them do do something. He asked
offices. They find ways to generate loans withoutthem that anytime they came within 10 feet of a
having to do much interaction with customers:customer in a store they should greet them and ask
websites, direct mail, call capture systems. And thesethem if they needed any help.
all work. But they work better when you back themSuch a simple concept. Yet it worked. There are no
up with people marketing: seminars, personal visits,numbers. But once they started doing it, Wal-Mart
networking, database marketing.rose faster to overtake KMart and Sears in sales and
I just had a student in my Jump Start Your Mortgagestores.
Career E-Class ask me how he can be moreCan you do the same? Even if you are shy? Sure
comfortable meeting and interacting with new people.you can.
And here is what I told him.Just say hello to people that come within a few feet
When Sam Walton (founder of Wal-Mart) was aof you. You don't have to yell across the street
small town merchant he got everyone in town to likeunless you want to. But if you see someone near
him. He did this in a very simple way. He said hello toyou, in an elevator, a doctor's office, a subway
everyone. Didn't matter if he knew them or not, hestation, anywhere. Just look them in the eye, and
just said hello to them. He greeted them before theysay 'Hello'.
had a chance to greet him. And by doing this, peopleDo this for a couple months and it will become a
started liking him. They started asking their friendshabit that will be hard to break. Mainly because it is
who he was. And they started going to his store.fun. And hopefully profitable as well!